The Gardener and the Carpenter

The Gardener and the Carpenter

What the New Science of Child Development Tells Us About the Relationship Between Parents and Children

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One of the world's leading child psychologists shatters the myth of "good parenting"

Caring deeply about our children is part of what makes us human. Yet the thing we call "parenting" is a surprisingly new invention. In the past thirty years, the concept of parenting and the multibillion dollar industry surrounding it have transformed child care into obsessive, controlling, and goal-oriented labor intended to create a particular kind of child and therefore a particular kind of adult. In The Gardener and the Carpenter , the pioneering developmental psychologist and philosopher Alison Gopnik argues that the familiar twenty-first-century picture of parents and children is profoundly wrong--it's not just based on bad science, it's bad for kids and parents, too.

Drawing on the study of human evolution and her own cutting-edge scientific research into how children learn, Gopnik shows that although caring for children is profoundly important, it is not a matter of shaping them to turn out a particular way. Children are designed to be messy and unpredictable, playful and imaginative, and to be very different both from their parents and from each other. The variability and flexibility of childhood lets them innovate, create, and survive in an unpredictable world. "Parenting" won't make children learn--but caring parents let children learn by creating a secure, loving environment.

Publisher: New York : Farrar, Straus and Giroux, 2016.
Edition: First edition.
Copyright Date: ©2016
ISBN: 9780374229702
0374229708
Branch Call Number: 155.4 Gop
Characteristics: x, 302 pages

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alitecky
Feb 02, 2017

After waiting months to get a copy, the very first impression was that it had not been read: the binding was tight as if no one had opened the book. At first I read every word. Thn I strtd skimmng. Thn I s ki pped fr om par a graph to par a graph , thn pa ge t pa ge.
Deadly dull. Repetitious, bland theorizing with flat examples to match. "Mamaleh Knows Best" is a much richer book.

ser_library Jan 31, 2017

the thesis is reinforced by many interesting examples; very readable for a scholarly subject

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